Met without a dating app
No dating app? Keep how it started anyway.
Maybe it started with a text the morning after a party, a DM, or a number on a napkin. Maybe the best part was your first couple of dates. A Matchbook doesn't need a dating app: write in your first text messages with the day and time each was sent, then keep your first dates as memories.

How it works
- 1
Get a Matchbook
Building one by hand is included with a Matchbook. Pick the style that looks like where you talked: text messages, DMs or a group chat.
- 2
Write in your first messages
Add them one at a time, as either of you, each with the day and time it was sent. Copy them from your phone or write them the way you remember them. GIFs and reactions too.
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Add your first dates
Each date becomes a memory: a photo, the place on a map, a voice note or a few words about what happened. Then write a letter and share it privately or print a QR card.
Planning a surprise? Build it on your own, then have it delivered on the day you pick.
Questions
- Can I import our text messages?
- Not yet. Our Matchbook imports Hinge and Tinder data; anything else you write in by hand, starting with the messages that matter most.
- Do we need to have met on a dating app?
- No. A Matchbook built by hand works the same way: your messages in the chat style you choose, your memories, a letter and a video.
- Is building it by hand free?
- Writing messages by hand is included with a Matchbook. The free Spark is for keeping a Hinge or Tinder conversation you import.
- Is it private?
- Yes. Your Matchbook is protected by a password, and only the people you share it with can open it.
